Seduce By Appearing To Be Mysterious

Women love men who have a certain amount of mystery about themselves. Just like men like a women who have certain air of mystery about themselves. It more fun to find out about women, who appears flirty but play hard to get. How to create the “MYSTERY” about yourself? To start with, understand some female psychology.

Women want to discover about the man that they want to date or seduce. If you want to get the woman that you desire, you need to have an air of secrecy. You should not reveal every thing about yourself all at once. Take the revelation slow. Women usually get a high when they are unraveling your secrets. The majority of the men are of the opinion that women prefer men who have no secrets to unravel. This type of thinking is not correct at all for women love to unravel mysteries.

Confidence and secrecy can work wonders. If you have seen the “The Bridget Jones Diary”, you know what I mean. The silent brooding types always get their women and keep them too. When a man says that “here I am”. Women have nothing to look forward to and get put off by such a blatant display of love. They lose all their chances of seduction and can never succeed then.

Let us assume this situation in a bar or a lounge. There is a gorgeous girl who is sitting right next to you. You have finally started to chat and then the conversation veers around what you do for living. Sooner or later she will be interested in your standard of living or other small details about you. Let’s say that you are a high flying business analyst on the stock market. You can simply tell her “Oh! I just look after other’s people money”. This can mean that you are a banker or you are a stock market trader or a financial consultant or any thing else. You are simply speaking in a way that would make her want to know more about you.

Now she will have to strip each layer of information about you while you are also keen to ask her about what she does for living. If she is half as clever as you are, then you will have a game of wits. This can really get exciting as you uncover a layer of shroud slowly revealing yourself to the other.

Infuse some humor in the conversation and get an easy and relaxed approach to the conversation. In this way both you and your lady friend won’t be rushed. In fact, both of you will have a great time! Tease her at the same time about her job, pet peeves, a little about her boss and friends. Sometimes people find a common connection and this can be even more exciting.

Think about opening up a Christmas Gift. You do not know what you will get in the end when you see the gift but the sheer thrill of opening the package keeps you going.